Resources: Breaking Down What's Breaking Down Men's Mental Health- This Is The Way
Readings, articles, studies, and assorted other helpful material discovered while researching. Will be updated as I find more.
This will be a list with small blurbs to summarize the content of the link, book, etc.
I will update it as needed…with dates for those additions.
First Published 6-13-24
In no particular order:
Why men should be feminists too (written by a man!)
written by a man, discusses the importance of men embracing feminism. It explains that feminism advocates for gender equality, which benefits everyone by dismantling harmful stereotypes and societal norms. The piece argues that by supporting feminism, men can help create a more just and equal society, free from the constraints of traditional gender roles that negatively impact mental health and personal development.
outlines various advantages men often experience in society due to systemic gender biases. Compiled by Barry Deutsch, it includes items such as higher chances of being hired for jobs, less likelihood of facing sexual harassment, and reduced scrutiny over personal choices compared to women. The list aims to highlight and challenge the often invisible privileges that men enjoy, encouraging awareness and action towards gender equality.
Men's Stories Can Help Dismantle Patriarchy
The stories of how misogyny and patriarchy negatively affect you as men are so important. Use them to help yourselves and other men.
These may all seem similar: They each provide new perspective, knowledge, or solutions…..
examines how patriarchal structures negatively impact both men and women. It argues that traditional gender roles enforce harmful stereotypes and contribute to mental health issues, such as anxiety and depression, by pressuring individuals to conform to rigid norms. The piece advocates for dismantling these structures to foster healthier psychological development and greater mental well-being for all genders.
Some Philosophical Origins of Patriarchy
The Nation examines how ancient Greek philosophers such as Plato, Hippocrates, and Aristotle contributed to enduring sexism by linking women's inferiority to their reproductive functions. It argues that their ideas, emphasizing the necessity of male control over women’s bodies for societal good, established a foundation for centuries of gender inequality and continue to influence contemporary misogyny.
An anecdotal and experienced-based guide on.
discusses how patriarchal structures contribute to psychological issues and perpetuate gender inequalities. It explores the impacts of these structures on mental health, emphasizing that dismantling patriarchal norms is crucial for fostering healthier and more equitable societies. The piece highlights the need for systemic change to address the deep-rooted psychological effects of patriarchy.
Gender-Roles and Expectations Harm Men
Highlights how traditional gender roles negatively impact men's physical and mental health. Men often avoid seeking medical and mental health care due to societal pressures to appear strong and invulnerable. This results in higher rates of untreated illnesses, risky behaviors, and overall health disparities compared to women. The piece advocates for challenging these harmful gender expectations to improve men's health outcomes.
WB Global Wage Gap and Protections Report
One of the most in-depth and comprehensive looks at Women’s pay as well as safety and fair-pay protections and implementation
The origins of sexism: How men came to rule 12,000 years ago
explores the historical development of patriarchy, suggesting that the shift to agricultural societies facilitated male dominance by concentrating power and inheritance within male kinship lines. It argues that prior to this shift, hunter-gatherer societies were more egalitarian. The piece underscores the importance of understanding these origins to address and dismantle modern gender inequalities.
Sexist Language That Harms Women
Discusses the need to redefine masculinity by rejecting the ideology of male supremacy and traditional gender roles. It argues that qualities often associated with masculinity are not inherently male and that psychological androgyny, where individuals embody a range of traits, is beneficial. —- advocating for a society where individuals can freely express diverse characteristics without gender constraints.
Toxic Masc is Shackling Men to Misogyny
Winton argues that misogyny distorts men's lives and propagates trauma across generations, similar to the lasting impacts of slavery and the Stolen Generations. He underscores that while the effects on men are significant, they do not equate to the broader suffering experienced by women under patriarchy.
Reproductive & Sexual Coercion
addresses reproductive and sexual coercion as a form of intimate partner violence, detailing behaviors like birth control sabotage and pregnancy pressure used to control partners. It highlights the severe psychological, physical, and social impacts on victims, including increased risks of unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. Additionally, it discusses state-sanctioned reproductive coercion through restrictive abortion laws and the lack of legal protections for victims of rape.
So many resources at this website. Bookmark and learn!
Opposes the de-gendering of domestic violence, arguing it removes male accountability and ignores the systemic nature of male violence against women. It criticizes the gender-neutral approach for creating false equivalences between male and female violence, highlighting that women's violence often arises from self-protection rather than power. The piece asserts that domestic violence is rooted in historical male power and systemic sexism, and that recognizing these dynamics is crucial for addressing the issue effectively
Politeness Not Owed-Feminists Aren't Responsible For Educating Men
This illustrates the importance of men doing the work, how politeness from feminists is self-defeating, and demanding further emotional labor from femmes and women is inappropriate
"Against Patriarchy: Tools for Men to Further Feminist Revolution"
Discusses how men can actively support feminist movements and challenge patriarchy. It offers practical steps, including developing an intersectional feminist analysis, studying feminist history and social movements, and fostering feminist principles in personal and public life. The article emphasizes the importance of emotional support, recognizing women's work, and building feminist communities among men. It encourages men to be allies in feminist efforts and to practice feminist values consistently.
explores how radical feminism can benefit men by challenging and dismantling patriarchal norms that often dictate and limit their lives. It argues that embracing feminist principles leads to greater personal fulfillment and healthier relationships by rejecting the traditional ideals of masculinity centered on dominance and control. The author reflects on his own journey, highlighting how radical feminism provided a framework for understanding and overcoming the detrimental effects of patriarchal expectations.
Ways "Macho" Masculinity & Sexism Hurts Men
Self-explanatory
Suicide Rate in Men is a Feminist Issue
We don’t hate men. We care. Please listen to us and not anti-feminist lies and rhetoric
It’s never good or benevolent.
Men-Feminism is Not Your Enemy
Written by Kayla Curry, argues that feminism is not an adversary to men but rather a movement that also addresses the harmful effects of patriarchy on men. It encourages men to recognize their privileges, challenge toxic masculinity, and support feminist efforts to create a more equitable society. The piece underscores that societal expectations of masculinity can be restrictive and detrimental, advocating for men to embrace more open and supportive behaviors.
Misogyny In Action/The Logic of Misogyny
Moralistic or not, misogyny is not about hating women. It is about controlling them.Victims of misogyny may not have violated gender norms.
In her thought-provoking piece, Kate Manne delves into the persistence of misogyny and its evolving forms. She examines how patriarchal systems not only impact women but also negatively affect men. By dissecting cultural narratives, power dynamics, and language, Manne highlights the insidious ways misogyny persists in our society. Her exploration invites readers to consider the collective responsibility in dismantling oppressive systems and fostering gender equality.
Tackling Misogyny in Real Time-Tips
Some fantastic definitions and examples of real time misogyny and ways to safely address in the moment
How to Deal with Partners Who Echo Andrew Tate Rhetoric
Self-explanatory from VICE
6 Way to Raise Sexually Respectful Boys
A high-level and simple how to.
Young Men Falling for J. Peterson Pseudo-Intellectualism and Misogyny
Delves into the phenomenon of why a significant number of young men are drawn to the ideas propagated by Canadian psychologist and professor Jordan Peterson. While Peterson gained prominence for his critiques of political correctness and compelled speech, the article focuses on his views related to gender and feminism. It explores how Peterson’s rhetoric resonates with certain male audiences, particularly those who feel threatened by shifts in gender dynamics and societal norms. The piece raises questions about the appeal of intellectual misogyny and the broader implications for gender equality and social discourse.
“How can I be sexist? I’m an anarchist!”
delves into the author's journey and reflections on confronting male supremacy and sexism. It discusses the discomfort and fears men face when addressing their complicity in patriarchal structures and highlights the importance of personal accountability and growth in the struggle for gender equality. The piece emphasizes that true change requires men to actively engage in critical self-reflection and confront their own privileges to foster a more equitable society.
addresses the misconception that efforts to address gender inequality can result in "reverse sexism" against men. It clarifies that sexism is a systemic issue deeply embedded in society, which predominantly affects women and marginalized genders. The piece argues that calling out systemic sexism does not oppress men but rather aims to dismantle the patriarchal structures that harm everyone, including men themselves. The concept of reverse sexism is therefore seen as a misunderstanding of the fundamental nature of systemic oppression.
Please feel free to comment or message other helpful resources! Always engage with your favorite authors as well!!
6/13/24
As I find more useful tools/ resources to give insight into such a deeply ingrained oppressive system that is messing with the mental health of all genders, I will add. Happy Men’s Mental Health Month, and especially Happy PRIDE!!!!
~~Ginge
I’m not clear on the statement that men would be more balanced or healthier if they understood feminism. What I have found in 40 years of men’s work is that men MUST accept and identify their feminine tones. This is where men begin to appreciate women as women and people… not toys. A man must learn and be able to express feminine tones… or they can become cruel woman abusers.